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Sunday 24 October 2021

Fashionably Mad



We’ve endured a cold, wet morning here in Derbyshire, so Mrs H and I toddled off for a stroll round town in our wet weather gear. We even popped into the Co-op coffee shop because it was that kind of day. The kind of day where it is not unpleasant to linger over a coffee, to chat and gaze at passersby through rain-spotted windows.  

Over coffee we found ourselves chatting about madness and how common and even fashionable it has become in modern times. Not padded room type madness, but mild versions which one might almost imagine to have become lifestyle choices. As if decades of psychology have not cured madness but promoted it as a socially fashionable condition within certain, equally fashionable limitations.

Celebrities especially – they seem remarkably keen to exhibit their mental problems to the whole world. Even wallowing in it, as if mild madness conveys some kind of artistic kudos, although they all seem disinclined to cut off one of their ears. They don’t usually take it that far.

As if it has become fashionable to be a little unstable, to have a screw loose or to be the proud owner of some fashionably expensive psychiatric problems. Apart from medication, the main remedy appears to be unconditional sympathy. Almost as if sympathy is a contributory factor, but that is hardly a surprising observation. 

Yes - fashionable madness does leave a chap with an obvious suspicion because excessive sympathy also appears to be a disease of our times. That is not to say that more people should be told to get a grip of themselves, but maybe more people should be encouraged to unlearn some of the social games they play…

No – on reflection more people should be told to get a grip of themselves.

4 comments:

DiscoveredJoys said...

Ahh! But in the socially inverted world of the woke and elite wannabees being a 'victim' has more status amongst your woke peers than rationality or wellbeing. 'Madness' or 'PTSD' may be asserted without truth or contradiction - for who would mock a true case?

There is no expectation of the old fashioned 'stiff upper lip' because how would people know you were Important if there were no obvious signs? Perhaps everyone who asserts they are 'mad' should have their driving licence suspended and their access to social media revoked. That would deter some of the fashionably mad and lower the stress on people who truly need help.

Sam Vega said...

Despite having mental health issues which one might expect to manifest as random derangement, celebrities and publicity-addicts always seem to manage to go loopy in ways designed to further their careers. Men are brawling, driven, sex-addicted, alcoholic or substance-abusing tough guys. Byron for the 21st Century. Women, however, develop the issues that make men want to look after them: self-harm, anxiety, depression, eating disorders, etc. Ophelia.

And, of course, there is the link with talent: "Great wits are sure to madness near allied". Which is, outside of the arts, about as wrong as it gets. Imagine an investment advisor or surgeon boasting about how their talent was so great that it nearly tips over into insanity.

Scrobs. said...

Don't forget politicians - they are an odd breed, usually vain, often plain stupid, but all wanting to shriek and scream at everyone.

I think the Left are more unkind than mad, but there are more bumptious MPs on the Con side. Those in the middle are numpties...

A K Haart said...

DJ - almost as if those with genuine problems have conditions that are too intractable for genuine success so there is a drift towards easier problems.

Sam - going loopy in ways designed to further a career ought to have a name, but if it did it would undermine the game. I'm sure it's not the only example of the missing words game.

Scrobs - I think you are right the Left are more unkind than mad and often worse than unkind.