tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2481298417819219839.post8101967842829306594..comments2024-03-28T19:27:59.772+00:00Comments on A K Haart: The thoughts of other peopleA K Haarthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05897490979828603179noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2481298417819219839.post-29476301114404032662014-02-22T20:40:19.046+00:002014-02-22T20:40:19.046+00:00Demetrius - absinthe maybe - something has to expl...Demetrius - absinthe maybe - something has to explain that mountain of words.A K Haarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05897490979828603179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2481298417819219839.post-33969160984090526662014-02-22T20:19:14.793+00:002014-02-22T20:19:14.793+00:00Perhaps a touch of the absinthe here? Or had Albe...Perhaps a touch of the absinthe here? Or had Albertine been getting on his nerves?Demetriushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17198549581667363991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2481298417819219839.post-79476697938531732542014-02-22T16:48:24.542+00:002014-02-22T16:48:24.542+00:00Sackers - presumably divorce can have its roots in...Sackers - presumably divorce can have its roots in the same urge.<br /><br />I should have changed jobs more often, but family responsibilities and a mortgage tend to make security very attractive. Even so... A K Haarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05897490979828603179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2481298417819219839.post-20704875301719802392014-02-21T22:15:18.376+00:002014-02-21T22:15:18.376+00:00Yes, it is difficult to change yourself in a famil...Yes, it is difficult to change yourself in a familiar milieu. I have often suggested that you need to extract yourself from familiars, make the changes you want and then join a different group, whose homeostatic instinct will keep in the path you have chosen. It's how I gave up smoking: did it between jobs. It's probably also why thousands of people disappear each year,walking out of their past lives completely.Sackersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17284329249862764601noreply@blogger.com